Anxiety is pervasive in our world today. From the poor economic
climate, to traffic, to tragedy in the news, our culture contributes as
well. Our modern society is busting at the seams with stimuli that
trigger symptoms of anxiety in our bodies and minds.
Have you noticed that you can go about your day with a sense of anxiety
that flares up on an incremental basis? Even as our minds get busy, the
physical sensations of anxiety such as muscle tension, tightness in the
chest or stomach, fluttering heartbeat are still present. Every few
moments our minds do a "check in" to be sure that all systems are
functioning properly. When the mind locates the symptoms of anxiety it
sends off a "code red" and all of the symptoms feel exacerbated.
The practice of mindfulness can help with
this. Mindfulness is defined as a state of active, open attention on
the present. When
you're mindful, you exist solely in the moment, noticing what is going
on right then to the fullest. The practice of acceptance goes along with
mindfulness. In acceptance you observe your thoughts and feelings from a
distance,
without judging them good or bad. Acceptance is the act of acknowledging
the existence of the feeling or sensation without "defining" yourself
by it. Instead of saying "I am anxious," notice the physical sensation
and acknowledge that it is there. If you have an unpleasant fluttery
knot in your stomach, say "there is anxiety" and gently move your
awareness back to what you are doing in the moment.
When
we resist emotions or physical sensations they rear their ugly heads
and demand to be noticed. The sheer energy of them increases due to our
increase in attempt to squash them down. Our bodies were made to allow
all energy, negative and positive to move through them and to be
expressed in some way, whether spoken through communication, burned off
through exercise or relaxed away. Acceptance allows our bodies to
naturally self correct and allow that energy to pass through us without
resistance.
Mindfulness causes you to be fully
present. You really focus on your work, you really engage in
conversation, you really indulge in the sensations of the cool breeze,
warm sun, etc. that are going on around you. Mindfulness is proven to
increase our quality of life by improving our physical health (reducing
blood pressure and increasing quality of sleep to name a few benefits)
and our mental health (decreased rumination, increased ability to handle
daily stress) and out relationships (One study showed that people who
practice mindfulness deal with relationship stress more constructively.
Another study found
that those who employ mindfulness have a lower stress response during
conflict, while the state of mindfulness was associated with better
communication during conflicts.)
Mindfulness
is most frequently associated with a practice of meditation. Even five
minutes of meditation daily has been proven to show benefit. You can
practice mindfulness in many other ways too. Some of my clients report
washing the dishes as being meditative for them, or gardening, or
listening to music. Any activity where you can be fully in the moment
contributes to your ability to quiet that voice in the mind that causes
anxiety.
By being mindful you are not
denying your feelings, nor ignoring them. You are integrating them into
your "whole self" and allowing your mind to get out of the way so that
your body can naturally heal itself.
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